Husband cares and crushes on other woman

So my husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 1 of those 8. All throughout our relationship he has always had this one girl in the back of his mind. (This girl is an ex he dated in 5th grade). To the point where way back he had to chose over me or her because I didn’t want to deal with it. Now we have a son together and I’ve noticed him looking her up on Facebook even though they aren’t friends on Facebook. Just recently they some how got each other’s snap chats. They do send some occasional snaps back and forth. Recently he sent her a happy birthday snapchat (he has her birthday memorized). So anyway they sent a few snaps back and forth. That was it. But tonight I also find out that he has a crush or feelings for another girl he knows, and sees often in a store we use. He said he would like to date her but nothing would happen on his end. I just feel like at this point in our relationship he puts more effort in other woman and that having crushes and such on other people while in a long term relationship is not normal. But he does not seem to feel it’s an issue. What do I do? How do I get to him that I am bothered by this. Do I continue to deal with these issues or am I the one that’s overreacting? Also, this is not the first crush he’s had, he’s also made dating accounts and hook up accounts in the past 2 years as well!! Help me out 😞😞

One thought on “Husband cares and crushes on other woman

  • mm
    26/10/2016 at 13:01
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    Im going to try my best not to be a jerk but i have to be real with you. First, It was foolish to marry a man that has feelings for any other women that aint his mother. Second, you guys have been together for 8 years and you have been revisiting this same argument for 8 year. he is showing you flat out that he doesn’t care about your feelings, he doesnt respect you as his wife or the mother of his ? HE doesnt believe you r “the one” simply because he still chasing The One That Got Away.

    Remember actions speak louder than words. Pay attention to the sign.

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