Heart broken

I was with this girl for 8 months things were going great she is my soul mate.. a few times she broke up with me over small stuff and she ask to take her back and I did twice.. 2 months ago she started not being so affectionate and she’ll tell me nothing is wrong so a week later we found out she was preganant.. she already has 2 kids which I embraced and grew to love. I supported the fact that she was having a baby and I told her I want to keep it but I’ll support any choice you make.. she decided to get a abortion and started pushing me away and I went to her house and we had a arguement and I said I was done but I didn’t want it to be done because I love her a lot but she ran with it and doesn’t take me back and she went through the abortion and I’ve been trying to be there for her but she won’t talk to me.. she told me twice she doesn’t want to give up on us but left me hanging when we were suppose to talk she hasn’t respond to me in a week and I deactivated my IG and she unfollowed me.. I’m having a hard time because I feel like I lost 3 of my best friends her and her 2 kids.. any advice would help

2 thoughts on “Heart broken

  • mm
    25/10/2016 at 01:12
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    You know how the saying goes, If you love something let it go and if its meant to be it will come back. I truly believe that in your case. Nd if it doesnt work out you’ll find someone better and create your own lil family. Have faith.

  • mm
    25/10/2016 at 13:19
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    Wanted or not, an abortion is always hard to go through and sometimes being around people can only make it worse, not because of the person but because personal space is important and having two kids of her own already, it’s hard to receive the space you need. Reassure her you never wanted it to be over, it was just a heat in the moment, but also let her know that when she is ready to talk, you are there and always will be. The most you can do is be there for her at this point and when she is ready, she will come back if it is meant to be. Try not to stress it too much, it will work out.

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