I’m a mess

I like this guy, one day he’ll be texting me saying how much he likes me and sometimes he’s just ignoring me. When he’s around I get rlly nervous and start being rlly funny and loud so he’ll notice me. Everyone sees me as that girl who no one would date but who’s funny and pretty (even tho I’m ugly). Guys outside of my school like me but guys at my school don’t. I wasn’t always loud and obnoxious, how can I find my old self? (I use to be quite, chill, funny but to certain extent. I wasn’t a try hard but now I am) It’s been so long since I’ve really been myself that I forgot who I was. How can I fix that? How can I get a guy to like me for me and not just my body, what am I suppose to do? How do I get others to see me differently? Please help, I could really use it.

3 thoughts on “I’m a mess

  • mm
    18/10/2016 at 15:22
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    I would say that if any guy ignores you they aren’t for you. That’s the reasoning behind why you are trying so hard because you don’t want this boy to ignore you and you want him to like you. But you shouldn’t have to try to be someone your not. You need to love your real self. Be that person no matter what anyone thinks. And honestly when you are undoubtfully yourself and never change for anyone guys really like that trait. It’s confident and it’s knowing what you are worth. So don’t focus on guys right now. Focus on finding and being the person you feel comfortable being and then guys will

  • mm
    20/10/2016 at 22:51
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    @Anonymous 36254, thanks, ya, I realized that’s we’re not meant to be. I need to focus on who I rlly am and wait and see u likes me for being me, not anyone else. Thanks for the advice, I rlly appreciate it!!

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