My parents possibly meeting my kids

About 9-10 years ago I cut off all communication with my parents after a fight of me being pregnant and bring kid out of the house, now I have 3 kids and I’m going to be 27 soon. My mother saw a photo of my family in my brothers house and she called and I sent her to voice mail and she said she wanted to meet her grand kids. Idk if I should have that happen and my husband said its my choice to decide I need help with talking about it.

3 thoughts on “My parents possibly meeting my kids

  • mm
    25/10/2016 at 07:47
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    I would go meet her. She is your Mom and 10 years is a long time. It might be nice for your kids to meet her. I would have a short meeting and take it slowly. How about a lunch with a beginning and an end time. If she lives far away, maybe stay at a motel for this visit. This way you are in control of situation. You can come and go as you please. Do something kid friendly during your visit and have her come along. Go to a park and the kids can play and you can talk. Then go out for ice cream. Keep it very simple. Best of luck to you. Give it a try.

  • mm
    12/11/2016 at 19:11
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    Yes give it a try. Great teaching moment of love lessons and forgiveness…or at least baby steps to a healthy relationship.

  • mm
    06/01/2017 at 06:31
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    I would give it a chance. She was clearly mad about you being pregnant so young but that doesnt mean she wont love your kids. My Gma hung up the phone on my mom when she told her she was pregnant with me, but it was cuz she was 23 not married, her mom was worried she’d end up a single mom and was young but my parents stayed together and loved each other i’m 20 a few years younger than you and my parents are still together and have 4more kids. My gma adored me. She was upset that my mom got pregnant with me a month or two after meeting my dad unmarried, not that she wasnt excited about me

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