I need advice quick!

So, my son is 12 old. And one night I had my buddy since about 2nd grade come over. And he has his own family, but his son is the main focus. So back to my son, he left in his room his my bud’s son. So after him and I were done catching up we went to check on them. When we open the door both boys were just wearing their unders kissing. Now, my bud yelled at his son. I don’t like their relationship but I want my son to be happy. So, what should I do?

8 thoughts on “I need advice quick!

  • mm
    25/10/2016 at 00:50
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    You should be excepting, every kid wants a parent that loves their flaws and they can talk to about being gay. I know because I’m gay too and young

  • mm
    25/10/2016 at 22:54
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    It is very good that you want your son to be happy, and it’s also nice that he is accepting who he is.
    As long as maybe you and your buddy talk about what happened, you two can put your feelings out there.
    And maybe have a talk with your son and make sure that he feels comfortable talking to you about the topic, and make sure he is comfortable in his own skin.

  • mm
    03/11/2016 at 11:44
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    Time for the talk? Let’s forget for a minute that it was another boy. He’s a little too young for this kind of behavior. Explain to him that kissing, etc. is for only older people. I don’t really understand why it should be treated any differently than if he was kissing a little girl.

  • mm
    13/11/2016 at 22:55
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    There is no rule in any book that says 12 year old boys are not allowed to kiss each other. If the 4 of you talk this through, maybe it will calm things down, and your budy will be able to accept this.

  • mm
    13/11/2016 at 22:59
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    @Anonymous 36938, is there really a “too young” rule for kissing? My first kiss was in kindergarten, and at my 4th-5th grade school, there was a bush kids liked to kiss behind. In fact, my uncles have been together since 3rd grade, and they’ve never had any problems.

  • mm
    06/01/2017 at 06:25
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    I think 12 is too young to be kissing anyone. But these boys naturally are going through puberty and clearly have feelings for each other. Maybe the rule nowshould be having an open bedroom door no closed doors for having friends over. U dont want your 12 yr old having sex especially being so naive they dont understand the severity of std’s or being safe. 12 is too young to be expirementing i wasnt doing anything till 14, 15, 16 im now 20. I think u can set some rules up to prevent your kid from getting into stuff too young. Nothing to do with his sexuality. But his age he’s too young.

  • mm
    07/01/2017 at 05:50
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    @Anonymous 42662, 11 and 12 year olds kiss all the time. It is not uncommon for romantic feelings to come up at this age. And about them just wearing their underwear, that MAY be a little too far, but at least it was stopped before it turned into sex.

  • mm
    09/01/2017 at 10:59
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    I was anonymous 42662@Anonymous 42766, Yea i just think the situation clearly got too outta hand it is a good thing it was stopped since it was going too far for 12year olds

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