So my same gender friend likes me sexually and I don’t know what to say to them I’m still their friend but they want to perform oral sex and I’m like no. Fuck that. I’m leaving the state for good and they are affected emotionally by this . This person has been my friend for a long time and they recently told me this. I’m trying not to hurt their feelings

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  • mm
    25/10/2016 at 13:15

    If you are straight – tell them it’s not anything against them, you’re just not into that.
    If you are not straight – tell them something along the lines of “you’re a good friend of mine, and you’re an awesome person. I have nothing against you, but with me leaving the state, I don’t want to get attached as it will only make things harder. I love the friendship we have and don’t want anything to come between that”. No matter what, you leaving will hurt.. Just not as much as you completely blowing them off. Be subtle but straight forward, but also be honest, it’s a tough situation.

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