Can I be lesbian and a Christian?

Umm… Well, first off, I’m a 13 year old girl. I live in a Christian home and go to a Christian school. I have asked a few of my friends if it’s okay if I’m Christian and a lesbian, but they told me that I won’t go to heaven if I’m lesbian, even if I am Christian. Is that true….?

9 thoughts on “Can I be lesbian and a Christian?

  • mm
    17/10/2016 at 10:23
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    I don’t know but if that’s the case you should talk to some one, any one about not being Christian anymore. It’s things like this that made me not want to be Christian.

  • mm
    17/10/2016 at 19:44
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    I was raised by my Catholic parents and to be honest, I don’t want to be a Catholic. Anyway, if I remember my Sunday school, they taught me that God love anyone even what they done was cruel and unusual. It is funny to think that someone say you can’t go to heaven because of what you are. What I believe is deeds. If you done something bad and won’t atone for it. You reap what you sow. You done something good, you go to heaven or something rewarding like that. I mean it wouldn’t make sense if God refuse to send you to heaven because you’re a lesbian. What make a lesbian a bad thing?

  • mm
    17/10/2016 at 19:56
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    Also, it’s a personal choice that doesn’t harm anybody. You are you. If god created you, he shouldn’t send you to hell unless you did something wrong like killing for example. Also, imagine this way. If a world was just like this but opposite. Instead of lesbian and gay were the “wrong. ” It’s the the straight. It’s sort of funny to think about that. The bottom line is that you love God and if God doesn’t appreciate your love. Then, I don’t know what this God made him so special. Sorry, if this long and personal to you. I hope this help.

  • mm
    18/10/2016 at 06:20
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    God made everyone the way we are. He wouldn’t create gay men, lesbian women, etc. If he hated them. I went through the same thing. I am Lutheran, and while my parents are fair and accepting, my grandparents are conservative. I had had crushes on boys since I was 3, but I never paid attention to them until I was going on 14. But I know that God is with me, and he wants me to find my perfect husband as much as he wants you to find your perfect wife. Maybe try not coming out to your parents yet. Instead, come out to accepting friends or LGBT friends first. God’s peace and good luck.

  • mm
    19/10/2016 at 00:21
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    Thx all of you. Your advice really helped me :)

  • mm
    06/11/2016 at 06:50
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    @Anonymous 36199, I’m sorry, but there are gay Christians, and even gay pastors. You can be gay AND christian at the same time.

  • mm
    06/11/2016 at 06:53
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    Sorry@Anonymous 37133, I’ve had very intorent people in my life and had them be Cristians so, that’s my experience.

  • mm
    06/11/2016 at 07:05
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    @Anonymous 37134, I’m Sorry to hear that. I was kind of rude, so please accept my apology.

  • mm
    06/11/2016 at 07:07
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    @Anonymous 37137, It’s okay, you’re human. You have emotions and things like this happen.

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